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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the psychology of people who want to fill in the gap when we are talking."

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Well, everyone.

Haven't you ever experienced it?

When I was talking to people and I had nothing to talk about, I thought it was a little awkward.

"Wow, what should I do? The other day ..." or "It's awkward because I don't have anything to talk about," or "Oh no! Isn't there something like "I'm in a hurry because it's a strange time"?

That's what I used to be.

But now, I don't think that at all.

It's okay to have a relatively silent time.

However, if you are Japanese, aren't there a lot of people who have this kind of trouble?

After all, Japanese people are an ethnic group that cares about the other person, so I think there are many people who have had the same experience.

Well, today, then why was I able to overcome this problem? It's not that, but I'm going to talk about the heart of people who have such problems.

First of all, I will explain from the psychology of wanting to fill in the gap, but if you want to fill in the gap, it is awkward to be silent, in other words, it is painful to feel.

Then why is it hard to shut up? But that's proof that most people care about the other person.

If you care about the other person, you will think about the other person, not about yourself, so it's kind of hard.

Because I don't know what you're thinking.

Other than that, "Isn't it boring to be with yourself?" Or, "I'm sorry I couldn't talk to you even though you took time for me," or "I want to show you something interesting, but I can't think of anything," I'm addicted to anxiety and worry by imagining it on my own.

Actually, I don't know what the other person thinks.

Then you can ask honestly, but because you can't do that, only anxiety will be amplified.

Then, on the contrary, please think of someone who doesn't care even if he doesn't say anything.

I'm sure you thought of the face of someone close to you, didn't you?

Isn't it?

That's right.

People who don't want to fill in the gap are close people.

Why is that? That's because he's a person who has such a sense of distance and doesn't have to worry.

Talk when you want to talk, and shut up when you want to shut up.

There is no such easy-going person other than someone close to you.

That's why the psychology of a person who wants to fill in the gap when the two of us are talking is to be a person who has anxiety, worry, and care.

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