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Well, today I'm going to talk about the disadvantages of being labeled by people before saying it yourself.

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Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

People told me, "Ha!" Have you ever noticed that?

There are quite a few.

I think there are a lot of people who have this kind of experience.

Well, today I will talk to those who have such experience.

In other words, it is a story for people who have always believed that "I am like that" is pointed out by people who are not aware of themselves.

Because in a kind of self-development field that I believe in and can't stop, this is pointed out by others and "Ha!" The point I noticed is actually your strength.

If you train, you will become a strong weapon in the future. There is a way to give a lecture.

However, if you make a mistake in the way you point it out, it will also lead to quite a bad result.

As the theme of this time is, it is "the disadvantage of being labeled by people before saying it yourself."

In other words, when people point out before you notice you and think "I'm like that", when others label you as "You're 〇〇, aren't you?", the person's consciousness tilts toward what was pointed out, so the assumption begins That's why.

It's good if that assumption works positively for that person, but for example, "You're tone-deaf," "You're not smooth," "You're talkative," "You're talkative," and so on. Well, I've been saying bad things directly. Even if you don't use things, most of the people who are told will be quite depressed by pointing out and labeling in the same sense.

There are some people who are happy to be pointed out the obvious downside of the pervert class.

But most people are depressed.

Some people say they don't want to appear in front of people anymore.

It's too late to do that, so there's something I want you to do before you get stuck or worry too much.

That is to question the labeling by yourself.

When I was told, "Mr. 〇〇 is ××, isn't it?", "Eh! Is that so?" You can put it in your mouth, or you don't have to put it out.

Once you have a question, you can restore your biased consciousness.

On top of that, if it's really as pointed out, what will you do about it? You just have to think about it properly, and if it's not true, you don't have to worry about it.

I think it will be useful in various places in the future if you train to question whether what is labeled like this is true or not.

In order not to turn your attention in a strange direction with the wrong labeling.

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