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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the psychology of people who are not satisfied even if they prepare their appearance".

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People who are still not satisfied with their appearance, arrange, and are addicted to the swamp that is getting more and more.

With recent plastic surgery technology, I almost don't know where I'm doing plastic surgery, but even if I'm going to fix my appearance, I'm not only doing plastic surgery, I'm going to fix my hair, I'm going to dress up, I'm going to dress up with a bag or accessories. It's a kind of arrangement, isn't it?

From the people around you, "You don't have to worry about it so much ..." or, "Even if you do that much, no one is watching," or "No, it's too much, isn't it?" And, I think there are various opinions.

But from the person in question, I still can't be satisfied, and in addition, I'm too worried about the good things of others, such as "I don't like this place" or "I'm not here yet" or "Oh, I want to be like that person", and I'm worried about other people's good things one after another. I'm going to try to incorporate it.

Then, from the perspective of others, "Isn't it too much?" What's going on in the hearts of these kinds of people until the situation?

That's a mass of desire for approval, isn't it?

It's a word I often hear in psychology.

Desire for approval.

This desire for approval, to put it roughly, is like a strong desire to be recognized by people.

People have had this desire for approval in the first place for a long time, but there is a high possibility that this desire for approval has not been met since they were young.

Then why is it not satisfied? It is always compared and compared with someone, "〇〇-chan's is cute" or "〇〇-kun is always fashionable, but is that what ××-kun is like?" It's the result of being told that "△△ is smarter" and so on.

To whom?

It's for parents, friends, and people who are close to human relationships.

As expected, if you are compared to someone since you were little, and if you continue to be denied and live, everyone will become negative.

Especially if you are a young child, you will take it obediently.

That's why I can't wipe out that negative mind even when I grow up, and I'm trying to change where I see it in various ways, and I try to show others that I have a good appearance even a little and get them to be recognized.

Actually, it's not a matter of good or bad appearance, but a matter of mind.

That's why I've been talking about the psychology of people who are not satisfied even if they look good.

How was it to listen to this story?

When you know that there is such a background, won't that person's way of view change?

You could understand why you would act like that, and after all, it's pitiful, isn't it?

Once upon a time, I continued to be denied by people who were close to me.

There is no such sad thing.

That's why you couldn't like yourself.

If you know this, won't the way you interact from the next time will change a little?

It's not like I'm sympathetic, because it may be something the other person doesn't want.

Rather than that, I think there is a way to deal with it.

If you say it a little badly, you will know where to tickle and if you can grab that person's heart, right?

So that's all for today.

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