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Well, today I'm going to brush up my past blog and talk about "the trial creates hatred".

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Then it's the main topic.

Trials are easy to see because they are often covered in the news even if you see only topical cases, but that's not the case, if you include things that are not talked about, it seems that there are roughly 200,000 trials a year in civil trials alone. It is.

About 550 cases a day, in Japan.

This time, I had something to think about this trial, so I'll try to blog it.

Please feel free to read it.

It's not a story that I'm not interested in trials or lawsuits at all, and it may happen to me in various ways, so if you go a little deeper, this is quite interesting, "Heh!" That place came out.

The Japanese law itself is a difficult article to understand, and it becomes even more interesting when you understand why it is a rough expression or why you are doing it.

Moreover, recently, some people have been explaining it in a very easy-to-understand manner, so I think it's getting along quite easy.

That said, I don't even understand professional things, so I won't touch on the contents, but I'm going to think about the system of trial from a psychological point of view.

First of all, what is a trial?

A trial is described as "a binding judgment made by a third party with a certain authority to resolve and coordinate conflicts of interest and disputes in social relations."

Can you understand this somehow? That's about it.

And in this trial, there are people who are suing and people who are being sued, arguing with each other and deciding which argument makes more sense.

So, what I want to say is that I have doubts about repeating the argument like a quarrel, so to speak, like poking the corner of the heavy box in order to pull each other's legs when making that claim.

It's good to be asserted by each other's legitimacy.

Freedom of expression is also guaranteed by the Constitution.

However, I think that because you impose your legitimacy on the other party, there will be a discrepancy and it will be strained.

First of all, do you pick up what happened over and over again, and is there any fault? Are there any inconsistencies? Is there a weakness of the other party? I'll look into that and point it out.

I can't find much meaning in doing this research.

In other words, I'll say it roughly, but it's a work to look back on what has been done many times and towards a solution.

This only seems to be a cognitive behavioral therapy, and I usually have Adler-type thinking, so I don't deny Freud, but the past has passed, and I think it can't be helped if it's irreparable. It's the type.

(The analogy that often appears here is, "Then don't you charge even if there is a misfortune in your family?" It's a problem. It's often said, isn't it? " Because it's about others, I can say that there's no point in the work of ssing back the past!" It's like that. That may be true. People are emotional animals, so they may certainly be enraged at first. However, if you think about it from a psychological point of view, your memory will definitely weather. I won't forget it, but I won't be caught in that lingerness forever, and I won't be able to do anything for a while, and I may be dazed, but the next stage has started from the moment the misfortune happened. So, if you choose to live, you have to start production activities regardless, and if you can do something mentally, there is a relaxation method that if you can do it, you will be free from that suffering even if you do it temporarily. Is. As long as there is no special attachment to the family, I know that the state of mind will become normal after about 6 months. So, there may be a slightly cold feeling, but I know this psychological effect, so if thoughts exceed emotions, it may be faster to go back to normal than people.)

So, this trial itself is not an act of looking forward, but only an act of looking back on the past.

Again, what will happen after the trial?

Even though what happened doesn't come back...

I think so, and what is the true intention of the person who will bring the trial? Rather, I'm interested in that one.

However, I've never sued myself, and I've never been sued, so it may be something I won't know until I become a party.

For example, if you say that you have a misfortune in your family, and you will file a trial out of revenge, appeal to society in order not to cause the same case twice, and you will file a trial for this purpose, but the trial will end soon. It seems that there is no such thing, so if you have time to spend your life in that time, if you spend more on other things, you will feel that you can produce more and more effective results.

(Hate creates hatred, even if you are ordered to pay damages, you can't pay because you don't have money, you have to spend your time to appear in court, and if you think about the disadvantages, it's not necessarily because you won the trial. I don't even think there is a cha virtue. If that's the case, I think it's better to think it's a study fee and look forward and think, "Let's be careful from the next time.")

It was a very selfish opinion.

I'm sorry if you were offended.

See you later✌️

(It will continue a little longer, so please watch it until the end.)

So how was today's story?

I just mentioned my personal opinion in general, but I don't say it's a saint, but it's a structure that can only produce hatred from hatred, both psychologically, brain science, and quantum mechanics.

This is, so to speak, the providence of nature, so it is built into the body so that those who do not know this theory will always be so.

Moreover, if you know the theory, you can control it, but this is also quite difficult, and you need a lot of training until you can control it.

If there is any merit in enduring that training, it depends on the individual, so if you want to know more, please ask my official LINE once.

I will explain it until I understand it carefully.

I will post my LINE ID and QR code at the bottom of this blog.

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