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Well, today I'm going to talk about "many people only see things from their own point of view".

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Then it's the main topic.

First of all, I'll ask everyone.

Around everyone, "Oh, this person only thinks about things from his own point of view, doesn't he?" Is there someone like that?

For example, in the workplace, people who don't care about other people's eyes and just talk at their own pace.

Even if there are people around you who are working hard, they don't care about anything, it's like they're immersed in their own world, and even if it's a story that has nothing to do with work, or even if it's a story that has something to do with it, they talk loudly without reading the atmosphere of the place, lol Why don't you make a lot of people who are working by making jokes?

There are quite a few people who feel it just because no one says it out loud.

But if it's the person in question, he doesn't feel the air at all, and he just keeps talking.

In this case, the temperature with the surroundings should open more and more, right?

However, even if you don't worry about the opening of the temperature difference at all, even if you say "Thank you for your hard work" or "Thank you" or "That's hard", it can only be heard at the top, so it doesn't resonate with my heart at all.

If that's the case, not only when you call out to your face, but other than that, there are many ways to do it, such as narrowing down the volume of your voice a little, suppressing loud laughter, or changing the place if you want to talk about crowded things.

But if you don't do that, you're only thinking about yourself.

It's proof that you only think about things from your own point of view.

Moreover, there are quite a lot of people who apply to this nature.

I understand, even if you look at it biologically, if you don't think about yourself first, your existence will be in danger.

Because there are not many people who help others at their own expense.

That's why first of all, it has the instinctive function of protecting yourself, so first of all, self-oriented first, and then others.

There is generally no problem in this order, but in places where you need to live in harmony with others, if you put yourself too much on the surface, you will be in pain later.

It's an act of counterattack, such as being resented, not being thought of well, or being attacked.

If this starts, it is very difficult to restore human relationships, so I strongly recommend that you prevent it on a regular basis so that it will not happen.

So first of all, let's start with noticing.

Looking at my words and actions from the perspective of others, "What is it like now?" I mean.

It means that you have a so-called bird's eye view.

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