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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the tragic end of waiting for people who let others take their hands and do what you should do yourself."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

What did you think when you heard today's theme?

"Long!" Did you think?

That's right.

When I looked at it again, my honest impression was, "It's been a long time!" I thought.

But I can't shorten this.

I was going to do it, and if I cut it somewhere, the meaning seems to change, so in the end, I couldn't cut it.

So, I'm going like this today.

It will be a little long theme, but please stay with me until the end.

That's why it's the annual question time.

Isn't there anyone around you?

A person who makes you do what you should do yourself by letting others take the hand of others.

Isn't there a lot of this around you?

"Oh, there is, there is," "There are quite a lot!" It seems like you can hear such a voice.

Because, at the very least, there are 10% to 20% of these people in every community.

Whether it's at school, at the company, or at a hobby club.

Honestly, how is it?

How do you feel?

Please try to imagine a little bit of people who are not around like this.

Isn't it pretty bad?

First of all, it's something you can do by yourself, letting others do it.

Isn't it so bad at this point?

"Isn't there a situation?" If you say so, it may be so, but the circumstances are mostly mutual, aren't they?

In other words, letting them do it means that they are a little off the right path, right?

If you're off the right path, it means that if you don't go back to the right path, you'll eventually deviate greatly, and you'll get off, right?

What happens when this happens between people? Then, of course, human relationships will crack, and eventually the cracks will gradually grow, and eventually they will be broken.

It is exactly the same as the phenomenon that often occurs in nature, for example, if the building cracks, it will eventually collapse, and if the fruit is scratched, it will eventually get damaged.

People are only one kind of weaving the natural world, so the same laws work.

I felt a little spiritual, but this is the course of nature.

It's "nature" written by myself.

Roughly speaking, it means that it will happen on its own, but that's why people who don't want to destroy relationships will be disliked in the end if they do this too much.

This is also what I'm talking about to everyone in the tragic end series every time, but what will happen if you are disliked in the community you belong to?

I'm sure you'll lose your place, right?

Then, you will have to leave the community, so in the end, you will be able to strangle yourself.

So, if you read this blog and have an idea, or, "Oh! If you have noticed that you have been doing this, I strongly recommend that you correct it to the right path from now on.

However, when you have too many things to do and you can't afford it in your heart, you can only do what you can do, such as "I have to do that too" or "I have to do it too" or if you are full, you can do whatever you can do. You can have people do it.

But at that time, please be careful how you say it and how you ask.

Moreover, even if you are rejected, you can't hold a grudge against the other person.

Once negative emotions such as resentment and bitterness are transmitted, they will create a terrible negative space with great momentum.

Please be careful.

Then, I will talk about how to ask for good errands on my official LINE, so if you are interested, please register as a friend.

I will post the story at 18:00 on April 23rd.

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