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Well, today I'm going to talk about "a mysterious phenomenon that only bad things come to mind the moment you think it's no good."

But before that, please do me a favor.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If there is someone like that, please share it 😁

Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Have you ever lived once or twice and thought, "No,"?

There is, right?

I don't think most of them are like that.

I'm the same.

Moreover, it's not once or twice.

There are probably thousands and tens of thousands of times.

Well, today, first of all, everyone looked back on the experience of "no" so far, but would you be surprised if I said that this idea of "no" was actually simply your own assumption?

I think there are few people who understand this.

That being said, from the point of view of brain science, it is surprisingly easy to explain.

The brain has a habit of unity and consistency.

This is a word that has appeared in my past blog several times, but it is a habit that the first thought I came up with is continued until the end.

In other words, let's say that when you encounter some difficulties, the first thought of "This is no good" comes to mind.

Then, from the next time, your mind will be full of thoughts of "No, no, no, no", and you will only think of a bad reason, or it will be a circuit to find a bad reason.

How about that?

You don't want to try the same thing again, do you?

I decided that it was no good before I did it, and I couldn't take action.

As I get older like this, everyone usually gives up most things by the time they get older.

From my speaking, he will become a wasteful person.

Of course, do you think children who still have a future will be excited to see such adults?

There are quite a few children who can see adults who don't seem to be having fun and see a fun future.

I'm a little out of the main topic, but if you know this logic, even if you think in your head, "This is no good," you will know what to do next time, right?

That's right.

It's good to think, "It's not good," "I can do it," and "There is a way."

Hey, it's easy, isn't it?

Please try this method thinking it's a lie.

Because it will really be true.

Moreover, I can do it only in my head, so I can do it without anyone finding out, and even if I can't do it, I'm not ashamed of anything.

If this is the case, no matter how shy you are, it's okay.

However, if you do this too much, the ability gap with the surroundings will be too wide, and you will be disgusted, disliked, and resented, so please be careful about that point.

Be careful not to overdo it.

So today, I talked about the mysterious phenomenon that only bad things come to mind the moment you think it's no good, and how to make use of it.

How can I use brain science in my daily life like this every day? How can psychology be used in the same way? I'm blogging about how to communicate well and how to build easy relationships.

So if you are interested in other themes, please also refer to the past blogs.

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So, finally, today's story, "It was good!" If you say so, please share it with your friends.

See you tomorrow✌️