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Well, today, I will talk about "If you change the way you talk with the female brain and the male brain, the credibility will explode (Vol.1)" while brushing up my blog in the past.

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Then it's the main topic.

For example, when talking to someone, the technique of "Let's shake a common topic" is often used.

(Have you ever thought about what kind of composition makes a common topic an effective way to continue the conversation?

Simply, "We're talking about the same theme, so that's natural!" If you say so, it's up to that, but in fact, if you touch the contents, you will find interesting things.

First of all, people are creatures that are weak in affinity.

In other words, if you know exactly what you know and do in exactly the same way, or if you see people doing it, this affinity will increase.

I'll omit the reason here, but for example, if you introduce what you know and do to people and deny it, don't you usually hate it?

Even though I'm enjoying what I'm doing, denying it is "I don't fit with this guy, I can't do it anymore!" It will be, right?

That's right, people get excited when they are denied.

What happens when your heart gets rough? If you say so, you'll be restless, right?

You'll feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, won't you?

In other words, it means that you will be anxious.

People are much easier to live with peace of mind than to be anxious, so that's why I'm trying to reassure my mind, but the common theme is a tool that we can talk to each other with peace of mind, so of course we both calm down mentally and have a heart There is a feature that the conversation is easy to last because the ground is good.

Of course, it's not necessarily a long-lasting tool.

There are also tricky people who break this composition, so I'll talk about it at another time.)

But isn't there anyone who only tells the facts on this common topic?

Certainly, it's a fact that anyone can understand in the same way no matter when, no matter how you look at it, so it's a common topic, but even if you just shake that topic, the rest is silent ...

"...Eh? After that...?" I can't help but think about it.

What did you want to tell?

Did you want to confirm the facts?

Or did you just want to talk?

Still, I think, "There is also a way to talk a little politely."

(Well, have you all noticed that there are many women in the way of speaking that only conveys this fact?

Well, let me tell you, it doesn't mean that women talk badly.

I definitely want you to understand that, but this is a problem of the difference between the female brain and the male brain, so it can't be helped.

Well, if anything, the female brain is better, and you can tell the facts, and you can also add the facts + the punch line of the story.

In other words, the female brain thinks more simply and is excellent because there are many things that can be done.

Moreover, when you can do it unconsciously, it's rising to the dimension, isn't it?

When it comes to male brains, if you don't say it consciously, you won't talk about facts.

For example, "What did you eat yesterday?", "Pasta", "...?" It's supposed to happen, so I won't have that kind of conversation from the beginning.

Even if there is an interesting episode after "pasta", I will dare to touch on the topic myself, but if there is no episode, I will not talk about it.

Well, if the brain is energy-saving, it will be energy-saving.)

So, it's going to be a long time, so that's all for today's blog.

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