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Well, today I'm going to talk about "Whichever is good, both are not good."

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Well, everyone.

Haven't you all said or heard from others at least once?

"Is it okay either way?" The word.

For example, when deciding on a menu for lunch or dinner, "Which do you want to eat, hamburger or curry?" The words that came back when I heard this is, "Hmm, is it okay with either?" That's right.

If you've been told this, don't you have a lot of trouble?

Even if you say it doesn't matter, "I'm going to choose you, but decide which one!" You want to say it involuntarily, don't you?

Those who don't think are well-equipped people.

Please walk straight through your life.

But I also understand the feelings of people who want to say it involuntarily.

Just a moment, please wait.

Before that, today's main point is to say, "Let's listen to what the other side says a little."

Well, let's look at the contents of "either is fine" from the deep psychology.

First of all, for example, "A or B, which is better?" If you are asked, if A is good, you will usually answer "A is good", and if B is good, you will answer "B is good", right?

In other words, when you are asked which is better, A or B, if you have decided which one is better from the beginning, you will choose the better one immediately.

But if you ask me which is better, A or B, "Which one is fine?" The psychology of the person who answers is "I don't have a good one, I wonder if it's the same either way, it's okay either way", "I don't care either way".

Of course, there are exceptions.

In rare cases, there is also "I can't choose either one because it's good", but at that time, I'm a little more excited than usual, so I can tell from the atmosphere.

So when this line "either is fine" comes out, if you can feel the atmosphere of that person, this person is using "either is good" in either meaning, right? I can guess that.

Well, let's go back to the main line, but I think you've come to understand that the word "whichever is fine" that many people use, and the psychology actually means that "both are not good".

That means it's up to you how to make use of this psychology.

Of course, this story is a kind of law, so it will be applied not only when choosing a meal, but also when you are presented with two choices in various situations, such as business, friendship, neighbors, and partners.

So please be careful.

If you want to continue to have a relationship with that person for a long time, you will have to present something really good for the other person, and if you think it's okay to end the relationship itself, you can present it appropriately, and with that person It means that it's all up to you to improve your relationship or make it worse.

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