When you want to hear the other person's true feelings, dare to lie.

hello everyone.

Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today I'm going to talk about "try to lie when you want to hear the other person's true feelings".

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Now let's get down to business.

Well, how are you all doing?

Is there someone you want to hear the truth about?

If you are one of those people, please read today's story to the end.

I'm sure I can help you.

So, today I will tell you from the conclusion, but if you really want to hear people's true feelings, try to dare to lie.


Then, even if you don't dare to ask from here, the other party may tell you the truth.

This is because the culture of “modesty = virtue” is rooted in many Japanese people.

Moreover, there is also the ethnicity of being passive, not wanting to stand out too much, not showing off, and not being good at confronting others.

So it's safe to assume that most Japanese people don't really speak their minds.

In other words, there is a possibility that not all of the people you want to hear your true feelings are speaking your true feelings.

​So, in order to bring out their true intentions, they use a ​“lie”​ that doesn’t hurt the other person. ”

For example, when you want to find out what the person you like really thinks, "I don't think I can go out with 〇〇 no matter what. Because 〇〇 is △△, isn't it?" When you want to know, say something like, "I have a little extra money this month, so I don't need your pocket money." .

The point is to keep the tone of your words the same as you normally would and speak like you would in a daily conversation so that you don't get caught off guard.

Then you can often see that the real intention comes into the words that came out after that.

Please listen carefully so as not to miss it.

As mentioned above, this was a technique to dare to lie and get out the real intention.

However, please be careful as I do not recommend it to those whose mentality is hurt.

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See you soon ✌️

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