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Well, today, I will talk about "how to have a happy life with each other by talking about how to make the other person have flowers."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

When you talk to people about something, do you say, "I'm careful here"?

I'm careful about various things, but I'm also talking carefully about what I'm going to talk about in some cases.

Because when you're having a conversation, sometimes you have to let the other person have flowers.

In other words, what does it mean? For example, if you only talk about yourself, the other person will get bored, won't you?

Well, there are some people who have super skills that they can listen thoroughly, but for most people, when they talk to people, they listen to the other person's story, listen to their own story, and have this dialogue with each other. Right.

By the way, what one person talks about unilaterally is not a conversation, but a solo performance.

Then, when you do that "conversation", you have to be careful about it, it's too much.

It seems that people originally have an instinct to want people to listen to them and tell people stories, so in other words, everyone is a creature that really wants to talk.

This is because DNA is like that, so you can't escape it.

Then, about that inescapable conversation, don't you think it will make each other happy if you have a conversation that makes you feel comfortable and the other person feels good?

This is the way to use it there.

It's "How to talk to let the other person have flowers."

Then what should I do specifically? That said, you have to let the other person have flowers, so you have to make the other person talk.

You shouldn't talk on your own.

You give flowers to the other person, so you have to put up with what you want to talk to and let the other person talk.

I think there are various things I know more than other people, such as topics in my specialty, knowledge I know, and what I have experienced, but rather than talking about it first, I first look at the other person's appearance and say, "Do you want to talk about this topic?" I'll prepare you with such a feeling, and if you say something, I'll listen to it until the end.

Don't interrupt or steal the person's story on the way.

I will devote myself to this and let the other person talk, in other words, I will let you hold flowers.

If you do that, the other person will also feel better, so the conversation itself will be happy.

By the way, I said "Toshiro" earlier, but of course, if I don't feel good, I won't have a happy life, so I don't have flowers only for the other person, but sometimes I know what I want to talk about, and what I'm good at. It's okay to talk about it.

If you don't say it, you'll be frustrated this time.

Then I can't be happy, so I think you should choose the one you are comfortable with, whether you want to talk more or give more to the other person.

So how was this story today?

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