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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end of waiting for those who seek consent with assumptions".

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Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

People who ask for consent from others just by their own assumptions.

There are about 10% of this in every community.

If you don't notice it or don't know it, please carefully observe the people around you.

"Ah! It's like, "This is the one you were talking about."

So, what is the tragic end of waiting for such a person? About that, what is the tragic end I'm talking about? Well, I'm always biased, such as "being disliked", "being disliked", and "being thought to be troublesome", but in fact, if you are not careful this time, everyone will hate you.

That's because each person, the way of thinking, values, and the way of looking at things is different, isn't it?

Certainly, there are things I can agree with, but that doesn't mean that everything is the same, right?

But it is the nature of human beings that if you misunderstand that and think that one or two things can be agreed in common, everything else will be the same as you.

This is called the halo effect in psychology, and in brain science, it is called the habit of unity and consistency of the brain.

So, thanks to this nature, everything we agreed to until then, everything that we both felt the same, were all in common, so I pull that feeling as it is, and everything else is mistaken that I feel the same as me. It is.

What's more, wouldn't you be very happy if there were people around you who felt the same as you?

It's reassuring, and it's fun, isn't it?

That's why you're even more pulled by that positive emotion.

But here, once you don't come back to yourself, you will be in a lot of pain.

That's what I talked about at the beginning, even if I thought that everything felt the same, but there are differences in opinions and values.

Then, this time, you will be forced to do things with different values, and you will be forced to agree, so the emotions that had been working positively until then will suddenly be shaken in the opposite direction this time.

In other words, some people suddenly get cold because they shake all the negative emotions, and some people leave the place, and those who don't approach from the next time, of course, even if they have different opinions from themselves, they lie about themselves and continue their relationship. .

So, which type of behavior depends on the person's personality, but what can be said in common to almost all types is that all of them do not work well as a way of dealing with human relationships.

Somewhere, a fraying will be born, and in the end, they will be disliked or disliked.

So if you hear this story and have any idea, why don't you reconsider your own behavior a little more?

If you fix it now, your life will be very easy to live from now on.

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