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Well, today I'm going to talk about "people who are not good at inviting people, there are things that can change just by changing their mind."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

Are you good at inviting people to something?

Or are you not good at it?

Maybe there are more people who are not good at it, aren't they?

Because, for example, "Why don't you invite 〇〇-chan?" Or, "If there's someone you want to come with, invite me," or something like that, but I always get a reply like this.

"Maybe because 〇〇-chan is busy," "Well, he said he wasn't at home that day ..." or "Because he said he didn't like 〇〇," and I found various reasons, and I'm trying to convince him by using it as an excuse for myself. That's right.

If you think about this for a moment, don't you think it's unexpectedly strange?

Because you haven't asked the other person yet, have you? For anything.

Even if you say you're going to go somewhere, it's not zero to cancel just before, is it?

From the beginning, I said that he was no good, or that this person was busy, and even before I invited him, I was just in the mind that "It's useless to invite him."

Isn't it good to invite him once because it's no good?

Even if you refuse, is there any problem?

Do you ever have a relationship with that person for the rest of your life?

It's the same when you're invited, isn't it?

If it's not convenient, you can refuse, and if you really don't want to go, you can tell them that you don't want to go, right?

Besides, if you invite me several times and refuse every time, maybe you really don't want to go.

In such a case, I have no choice but to give up obediently rather than going persistently.

But it's okay, if you invite other people.

If a different person comes out again next time, all you have to do is invite that person.

Japan is also a large country.

It has a population of about 120 million people.

That means that the person who get along with you is not the only one.

What do you think?

If you can think like this, "Would you like to invite me for a moment?" Isn't it?

That's right, it will be.

So next time, how can it be easier for the other person to come on board when you actually invite someone? I'm going to talk about.

If you are interested, please come to my blog tomorrow.

I'll be waiting for you.

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