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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "If you have a sense of intimation, if you talk about what you heard again, it will be very effective."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

I'm going to tell you a little cheating method today, but please don't hate it.

Because, when you think "I want to get along with someone", what kind of method are you trying to get along with?

Do you always talk to me? Or, do you give the other person's favorite sweets and do something like feeding them? Or, basically, are you kind to him? I guess so.

Well, it's true that they're all correct, and even if you do this kind of thing, the possibility of getting along will increase.

In the end, if you appeal to a good person, it will be easier for the other person to forgive you, and it will be easier to be friendly.

But the method I'm going to introduce this time is not to appeal kindness, but to get along with each other in a way that makes the other person feel close.

Now, let's take a breath and think about it.

Well, here's the question.

What kind of time is it when people get along with others?

Is it when you were kind to me?

Is it when you give me what you like?

Or is it when you are directly told to "get along"?

I'm sure they're all different.

Even if you are suddenly told such a thing by a stranger, or by someone who doesn't usually have much contact, there are few people who are quite confused at first, or trust that person immediately just because they were kind to you and want to get along with him. Is it okay?

Then, you can't use that kind of hand, what should you do in such a case? But one way is to "feel a sense of affinity".

This method is a way to get along using what the other person and yourself have in common.

Then why the common points are effective, the common point is, "Ah! This person is similar to me," or "Oh! By making you think that this person is the same as yourself, or "I understand that", it has the effect of synchronizing the other person and yourself and having a sense of camaraderie.

It's a way to use it for the first time when building relationships or communicating with others, but it's a way to present the other person and yourself to the other person and appeal the intimacy by saying, "Look, we are so similar."

If there is a place similar to you, people can feel at ease, and it's more comfortable than being with people who don't look like you at all.

That's why I use that habit.

Then, the important thing is that specific practical method, but it is to "use listening again".

Or you can use the information of the other party that you heard somewhere.

This is also a little cheating, but if the content you hear is coincidentally similar to yourself from the beginning, there is no problem at all, but if it is different, you will learn it later.

You have to learn it later and go out of your way to make similar places.

For example, if you hear information such as "I like 〇〇 movies", you will watch that movie every day immediately from that day.

If you get the information that you like bicycles, you will touch the bicycle immediately from that day.

Then, I was able to make something in common with this, so all I have to do is to be brave and start talking at some point.

If you do that, I'm sure the other party will say, "Eh! Is that so?" I think I'll be surprised and proudly talk about various things I like.

"Listening again" is also just "eavesdropping", so if you say it's a careless way, but don't you think it's a useful guy unexpectedly?

So today, I talked about "If you feel close to me, if you talk about what you heard again on a different day, it will be very effective."

Oh, I forgot to tell you, but the reason why it's better to shift the date is because it's more deliberate.

It's suspicious if you say, "No, actually, I like 〇〇 too" as soon as I eavesdropped again.

Then you can put the story to sleep a little bit and use the story when a few days have passed.

It is recommended for those who want to feel natural to the last, and those who are not in a hurry.

Well, every day like this, I blog about various things, such as how to make human relationships quite naturally even if you can't do it a little, and how to get people to talk to you using people's psychology.

So if there are people who say, "I'm getting interested," you can kill time, so please come and visit my past blog first.

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