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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "how to make the most of the habit that makes people feel better when they admit failure".

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Well, everyone.

Have you ever felt it through your own experience?

For example, do you have any experience of failing at work, schoolwork, or playing sports, or failing due to your own misunderstanding?

Well, it's usually there, isn't it?

It's one time, but "I won't fail!" A drama with such a famous line became popular, but there are no such people, right?

Or a person with super positive thinking, saying that all past failures are the prologue to success, but a person with a super positive mind like Edison.

Well, there may be a certain number of people with super positive minds, but today, I don't want to talk about whether to make mistakes or not is good or bad, but I don't want to talk about the positive effects and negative effects of failure, but people who have made mistakes I want to talk about the fact that it's a big opportunity to deepen human relationships when it's getting messy.

Because when you fail, most people get depressed, don't they?

When you get depressed, most people become depressed.

Or rather, it will be quiet.

Well, the time until the resurrection varies from person to person, but when you are becoming more like that, the relationship with that person after that person will change completely with one way of dealing with that person.

So, actually, how can we deepen human relationships? But that's what it means, "I'll forgive you gently."

Don't we all blame others for their failures?

A project that went well, or a project that promised, "Let's go together."

This is a little aside, but if you don't gently forgive other people's mistakes on the spot, unhappy things will come back to you later.

Because, as I said at the beginning, there is no one in the world who doesn't fail enough to say that it's almost 100%.

In other words, the person on the side that failed may also turn to the side that fails someday.

So, even if you lose or suffer damage, it depends on whether you can forgive or not at that time, and when you are in the opposite position, it will be divided whether you can forgive the other party.

People are unexpectedly vindictive, and due to the nature of the brain, it is difficult to forget when they suffer severe mental pain.

In other words, the memories that were blamed at that time remain all the time without forgetting.

So, this time, when you turn to the person on the failed side, there is an extremely high possibility that you will be retaliated.

Right?

People's grudges are scary, aren't they?

So, I'll go back to the story, but now that I've talked about it, you understand, don't you?

The way to build a deep human relationship that makes the most of the habit of admitting failure is to forgive gently without blaming failure.

If you do that, even if you fail, you will forgive me just as gently.

In this way, we continue to have a relationship and deepen relationships, trust relationships, and trust relationships.

However, if the other party didn't forgive us for our failure, I would have forgiven it.

In such a case, it is wise to run away from that person if you can.

Maybe, but there's a big possibility of a person with a dark personality.

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