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Well, today I'm going to brush up my past blog about "It's just right to add the personalities of people who can honestly say and people who can't say it by 2."

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Then it's the main topic.

To be honest, I sometimes feel envious when I see people who can say things honestly.

(First of all, I will roughly divide the types of people into two types. One is a person who can honestly say what he came up with, and the other is a person who can't say it. Both of these have advantages and disadvantages, so today I will focus on that area.)

Don't think about how the other person will feel at all, just say it.

Because of that, I think it may make you feel bad, so I also think it's easy to get into trouble.

(Of course. People are creatures who get angry when they are denied their opinions, told the right argument, or are told things that they know but can't do. All these actions come from the opposition to those who try to drag them from a comfortable place to an unpleasant place to protect themselves. It's an instinct, so to speak, so it's rather an appropriate reaction that these things are done unconsciously. However, even so, if you express the emotions that came out at that time as they are, it's hard to live in a group. I'm also consulting with those who say so. The hint is to use "consciousness". Unfortunately, there is no immediate way to deal with it, but it takes a little time to use it realistically. But once this change in consciousness occurs, you can stay as it is for the rest of your life, so if you have any concerns, please contact us. I will post my official LINE ID and QR code at the bottom of this blog. We look forward to your friend registration.)

But the person in question said, "Why is this person angry?" It's like that, and I think there are a lot of things that don't ring a bell.

I just said what I thought honestly.

In other words, it's the person's justice to say what you think honestly.

I'm saying honest things, so it's not a bad thing.

Maybe this is how it works in my head.

(When I hear the mechanism, I feel like I can't fix it anymore, but in the end it's about the mechanism input to the brain, so I think it's easy to say. So I'll bring that assumption back to the right place in the middle. With just this, you can cure that biased way of thinking and assumptions. I just need a knack though.)

However, as there is a word "disa sense" when you become an adult, there is also a selfish way of caring that you think about the other person and take the initiative to get ahead of yourself.

This is probably common sense in adult society in general.

Ever since I was little, most people say, "I don't do things that people don't like!" You must have been taught that.

(For the type of people who can't say what they came up with, there are many people who are very good at this. At first glance, it looks like a kind type of person, but this type of person also has the possibility of ruining people if their assumptions are too severe, so you need to be careful.)

However, I guess people who can say things honestly are just a little out of this common sense.

Because you try to apply it to common sense, trouble will occur, so if you accept it, there will be no problem.

(Let's review the word common sense. What was common sense? Common sense was something that the majority of people could be convinced that it was "yes", right? In other words, even if a minority person admits that it is so, it is insane. At this point, it's already unreasonable, but as long as you live in a group, you will inevitably lose by the difference in numbers, which is the painful part of the minority. If people get together, a group can be formed. If a group can do it, it will definitely make common sense. If you have common sense, you can have someone who can't get used to it. In other words, people who are insane are more likely to get into this loop, which is difficult to live wherever they go. Then what should I do? As I wrote in the original story of this blog, there is no way to deal with it except that either a group or an individual accepts the common sense. If you want to belong to that group forever.)

First of all, many people, including me, are getting bigger and bigger because they are influenced by their parents and the environment they have grown up in, so in other words, it can be said that "I didn't choose what I wanted."

In other words, it can be said that it's not just that person's fault.

After all, I'm not the type to say what I think much because of my personality, so I don't usually say anything at any time, but I think it would be nice if I could say what I honestly thought.

That point is also enviable, and on the contrary, there are aspects that make enemies easily, and both personalities have advantages and disadvantages, but if you consciously use only this advantage, that is, if you aim for a hybrid type, it will be relatively valuable for yourself and others. I believe that I can be myself who I can find.

(So, it's been about a year and two months since I wrote this original story, but I'm doing it now with about 20% of those who say what they came up with and 80% of those who don't. Because after all, the internal climate will have a big impact. It's easier to spend time if you don't say that the atmosphere in the company is conservative, and there is almost no harm to yourself, so there is no problem if you decide to go to rice work. However, I get bored because there is no stimulation. If it's someone who can put up with that, is it okay?)

See you later✌️

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Every day like this, I blog about various characteristics of people, how to communicate, how to create human relationships, and how to use them.

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