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Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today I will brush up on my past blog and explain about "How to raise a child until you die".

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Children always seem to be watching from the side, but in fact they don't see much, and I feel that they have grown up without realizing it.
​​(This is something that adults have been saying a lot for a long time. I've heard it many times in various places, but it didn't really make sense to me at the time. will come.)

They don't look or talk much like adults, and they start talking to their parents on an equal footing.
​​(I'm going to talk a little more seriously. It's about the way you look and talk. If you ask who influences a child the most, it's the parents who are by far the number one. Of course, later on, I grew up under the influence of various people, such as my friends, my school teacher, and the entertainer I admired, and my personality was established as an adult. In other words, the most important thing is how you spent your childhood. If you raise a child to be kind to others, you can be kind to them even when you grow up, and if you raise a child to like exercise, you will be able to move your body even when you grow up. You will become a child who likes.This means that when you listen to the way your child talks, you can understand their parents' usual way of talking.If you know how they talk, you can roughly understand what kind of personality they have.With mom friends and dad friends. , If you are unsure of what kind of person you should be involved with, please refer to this area.)​​

But the truth is, I haven't grown up yet in my heart, and my heart is shaken by every little thing that happens in school life.

I can't say that I've grown up to be a fine adult, but when I see my child like that, I feel that parenting is not over yet.
​​(In other words, when I think about the concept of child-rearing more deeply recently, I honestly come to the conclusion that until the day I die, it's "child-rearing." As we become richer and rely less on others, we will inevitably have fewer points of contact, but nevertheless, if we keep the order and grow old, the parents will inevitably die before the children. But before that, there will be a period when nursing care is needed.In other words, at the end of life, I will hold an experience-based final work on the theme of "What is the end of life?" When I think about it, I feel a sense of mission, and the theme is magnificent.)​​

I thought it would be a bit of a hassle later if I decided to stop raising my children early, judging only by their outward appearance.
​​(If you judge that you have grown up just by looking at your language and physical growth, you will fail. This is because your mental growth is still immature. Some people are weak even when they grow up, But compared to when I was a kid, the difference is the number and quality of people I can rely on to help me get through my feelings after being shaken. You have no wisdom, and your sphere of action is narrow, so you have fewer people to turn to for help and fewer good people to give you good advice. You may grow up as a child without a child and become a person with mental quirks, or you may end up taking your own life in the middle of the process.

I feel that parenting is not only about the appearance, but also about having the heart grow up.

However, once you go out into the world, you have to deal with others alone.

I can't follow him around forever (I don't think he wants to...), and I have to acquire toughness, so I think I'll only reach out when I'm in trouble.
​​(If parents keep distracting and interfering, they end up becoming overprotective. That also interferes with the child's autonomy and should not be done. I'll try to give it a try once, but when it doesn't work out, I'll lend you a hand.This stance hasn't changed in the past and now.However, if you do that, the time you really get involved will decrease, so it's sad. I will.)​​

First of all, I'm going to keep my antenna up on a daily basis so that I don't miss the SOS from my child, and I'll be prepared not to miss the child's rescue sign.
​(This is my area of ​​expertise. You can judge which one your mentality is touching from facial expressions, use of words, intonation, endings of words, attitude, body posture, etc. In other words, is it positive or negative? That mental state If I just know, I can guess what to say, so first of all, I'm going to watch over them when I'm face-to-face, using SNS, and people I have in common with.)

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