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Well, today I'm going to talk about "how to refuse when you have a bad request."

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What would you do if someone asked you to do something you don't like?

Can you refuse properly?

Or do you accept it without being able to refuse?

Because it's hard to refuse, and in the end, there are quite a few people who accept it.

For example, "If you refuse, it's awkward later," or "I'm in trouble if you refuse and have roots," he relied on me in the first place, so he said, "I want to be good for people."

Don't you try your best to accept it and somehow corner yourself?

Moreover, once you do this, a similar project will come to your place from the next to the next, and you can't get out of that loop ... it can be something.

So, in order not to do so, it is necessary to cancel the loop once somewhere.

Then, it's about what to do to break the loop, but it's to take the plunge and tell them that it's impossible.

If you do that, the other party may accept it without incident, saying, "Oh, that's right."

It may be surprising, but there are many people who are surprisingly not interested in others, so there is no one who has the root even if you refuse as much as you think.

If that's the case, it's definitely easy to refuse next time when you can't afford it.

However, if you refuse anything at any time, you will be certified as "that person does nothing", so if that happens, the relationship will collapse in another sense and it will be difficult to work, so I will refuse moderately.

Why don't you find a comfortable refusal frequency that does not put a load on you, such as refusing once every three times, or refusing once every two times, and practice it?

In the unlikely event that you are a person who has the root of the other person who refuses, it is a type of person who is better not to get involved in his personality, so you can decide whether to quit the workplace quickly or fight head-on. I think so.

Well, for me, I'm going to spend a waste of time fighting, so I think it's better to withdraw from the place as soon as possible.

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