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Well, today I'm going to talk about "Parents who lay rails narrow the future of their children."

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Well, everyone.

How was everyone?

Were you able to find the person you want to be?

Because isn't it quite difficult to find the person you want to be?

Me too, but I had a hard time finding who I wanted to be.

I mean, I found it in my early 40s, so it's pretty late just recently.

So today, I'm going to dig deeper into "finding who wants to be" including myself.

So first of all, why couldn't you find the person you wanted to be until now? It's about

I'll start with the conclusion today.

It means that the influence of parents is quite involved.

Of course, it doesn't mean that everyone is like that.

There are many people who find their own longing without being influenced by their parents and become the person they want to be.

However, what I want to tell you today is the time when parents lay this rail.

As a parent, I have various thoughts, such as my child is cute, I don't want him to be unhappy, I don't want him to have a hard time, or wants me to take over my family business, and I decide my child's future on my own, but I understand that feeling. It is.

But, isn't it a little too early to decide the future of your child while your heart is still immature?

It's not that you don't have the person you want to be, it's just that you haven't met the person you want to be yet?

If so, what would you do as a parent?

Yes, it's to let you experience a lot of things.

Do as much as you can.

If you do that, you will find something that interests you.

If something comes out that interests you, all you have to do is recommend it.

But parents are creatures who do it.

It's just that I've never experienced many things for my child, but I put a label that says "This child has no one who wants to be ..." without experiencing it.

If that happens, I will try to become the person I want in the limited range that is only in my parents' head.

As a composition, it looks like this.

As a child, I have no choice but to do what my parents say.

Because the power of parents is enormous.

If you are told by your parents, you will think, "I don't want to be disliked," and you will misunderstand that "there is no one you want to be", and you will feel like "Parents say it, it's troublesome, and it's okay."

So what you need is to make you think about it.

If possible, let them have various experiences, let them think about it in their own head, and answer a little late, in the meantime, let's just prepare rice and bed.

If you do that, you will definitely find the answer by yourself.

If you want to have an experience that costs money without comparing with other people's children, I will teach you how to make money yourself, and as a parent, I will help you do the best I can.

Isn't that fine?

Fortunately, in this era, SNS is developing, so various experiences are simulated at hand, but you can do it.

It's also good to try to make use of it.

Never, "What are you going to do in the future!" I won't rush you by saying that.

I'll wait until I find it myself.

Like waiting for the chicks to return from the egg.

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