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Well, today I'm going to talk about the psychology of people who say, "If I had heard that in advance, I would have done it properly."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

People who say, "If I had heard that in advance, I would have done it properly."

"No, no, really? If I really told you in advance, would you do it?"

Well, have you ever doubted it?

I have, to be honest.

I say good things with my mouth, but I'm actually not motivated.

I've also had a hunch that "I can say anything because it's already over."

That's because when I say that line, I'm grinning at my expression, and when I look at my usual behavior, I can't trust it.

Well, if you say it's just lip service, that's it, but I think there are some people who receive it in between.

What I want such a person to know is the psychology of a person who says, "If I had heard that in advance, I would have done it properly."

Is that okay?

First of all, the key is to say, "If you had asked in advance."

In other words, if you take this part in reverse, it will be "if you don't listen".

Next is the "I was doing it" part.

If you take it in the opposite sense, it means "I won't do it."

All that's left is to connect the two sentences.

If you try to mean the opposite, "If I had heard it in advance, I would have done it properly," it would be "I didn't do it because I didn't hear it."

If you dig deeper, "I haven't heard" means that you're not very interested, right?

That's because, if you're usually interested, most people come to ask themselves, right?

I'm interested, so I can't help worrying about it.

Everyone will want to hear that.

But since you didn't come to ask, it's more natural to think that you're not interested after all.

So today's conclusion can be led by this.

In other words, the psychology of people who say, "If I had heard it in advance, I would have done it properly" is that I am not interested, in other words, I am not motivated, but I just said it for the time being.

The reason why I just said it is, why did everyone say it?

I think there are many reasons for that.

Is it to defend yourself?

Or are you caring about the other person?

The only way to distinguish it is to guess from the usual relationship, the person's personality, behavior, etc., so that's all I can talk about today.

So how was it, today's story.

Well, in any case, it's a line that expresses the psychology of "I'm not interested", so I recommend you not to use it too much.

Well, every day like this, I decipher the psychology of people with various mouths, and after that, I blog about psychological techniques that I can use on a daily basis, how to communicate, how to make relationships, etc.

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