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Well, today, I will talk about "a choice of ways to cherish partnerships".

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Have you ever had trouble with your relationship with your partner even once in the past?

If you listen to this, there are quite a few, those who have been worried.

Because first of all, people think about themselves first in terms of their nature, so they think about the other person and others after the second.

Even if it's family or close friends.

Is it good?

This is the key first, isn't it?

It's the core part of the essentials.

In other words, if you want to improve your relationship with your partner, then what should you do? In other words, you just need to change the priority to the other person, not yourself.

Please try it.

Just try to change the priority to the other party.

It doesn't have to be for a long time, it's okay even for a little while.

For example, when you see a person who seems to be sitting on the train, please make that person the number one priority.

Then, what kind of words and actions will you do?

Maybe naturally, "If you don't mind, would you like to give up your seat?" Or, "Please sit down," or something like that comes out, right?

Well, it's a premise, but once here, please put aside the feeling of "what to do if you are rejected" and "embarrassed", please think about it.

When I see a person trying to carry a heavy load alone, I try to change the priority to that person.

How about doing that?

Even at times like this, the next words and actions that come out are, "Shall I have it?" Or, "Are you okay?" Isn't it something like that?

That's right, you just need to do this to your partner.

For example, if you see someone cleaning, "I'll help you" or "Where else should I do it?" Or, when I try to go shopping, "I'll go," or "Do you still have anything else to do?" Or, the words and actions that come out will change, right?

Some people say it's better not to say it because it makes you angry when you say, "I'll help you," but it's just a mistake in choosing a word, so you don't have to worry about it for the time being.

It's much better than doing nothing, so if you haven't done anything until now, first of all, "Do you want me to help?" Even if it's from, it's totally ant.

From there, "That? Was it a bad way to say it?" Or, "Why are you angry?" Or, "I don't know how you feel because it's the first time I've said it," or if you honestly hit your feelings in various ways, maybe the other person will also leak your true feelings.

Depending on the answer, "What should I say next?" or "What should I say?" Or, "Let's do this next time" will switch to the mind that thinks about the other person as the first priority, so if the mind changes, the thinking circuit will change, and if the thinking changes, the words and actions will change.

So first of all, even if the partnership is hopeless, if you want to play it again, I recommend that you do not give up and repeat it without giving up until your partner's words and actions change.

If that doesn't work, let's give up at that time.

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