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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "If you carefully identify common things and personal belongings, the marital relationship will be more appropriate."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

Are you thinking about shared things and personal belongings separately?

Especially those who are married.

It's inside, "It's okay to share it!" That's better.

But considering the nature and personality of people, this one is quite rare.

For example, the pudding I put in the refrigerator.

I bought it for myself, but has anyone ever eaten it?

This pudding is, so to speak, a personal thing, isn't it?

But by putting it in a shared item called a refrigerator, from other people's point of view, the pudding will be reflected in the shared item.

So, "Can I eat it without permission?" I get the illusion that I'm silent and eat it without permission, this kind of phenomenon happens.

That's why the brain illusion is also happening.

Also, cars and bicycles are the same.

There is no problem at all if you share people who are not particular about it, but for example, people who talk in the way of "my car ..." or "my bicycle ..." are people who have a strong tendency to do so.

That's because the beginning of the story starts with the first person, that is, "I" or "I" which means private ownership.

If this is a common thing in your consciousness, the words "I" or "I" will not come out much, and the name of the car will come out immediately, or you will speak with nouns that refer to the object itself, such as "That mamachari ..."

So that's the hint.

It will be a hint to make the marital relationship go well.

Please observe carefully when your partner is talking openly.

Do you see the thing as a personal property, or as a common thing, by giving it a first person or not?

It is good manners to get permission from your partner when you use it, eat it, or move it.

It's not particularly necessary for shared things, is it?

In this way, by separating which is personal and which is shared, you will naturally become a comfortable existence for your partner, so I'm sure your marital relationship will go well.

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