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広がる「サードプレイス」、防ぐ孤立             気ままなリライト139

As feelings of loneliness and isolation have intensified in today’s fast-paced world, ‘third places’, a concept popularized by sociologist Ray Oldenburg in his influential book "The Great Good Place," have been emerging as a mental haven. Set apart from the familiar environments of home and work, those welcoming spaces have played a crucial role in fostering community ties and a sense of identity through deep, reflective dialogues or light-hearted, playful banters. The casual and voluntary nature of third places is encouraging individuals from diverse backgrounds to engage at their own pace and comfort level, offering a less intimidating alternative to more formal or structured social settings.

Driven by the increasing demand for a harbor of hearts where each life’s player can find calm amidst emotional storms, two entrepreneurs have brought Ray Oldenburg's concept of a "third place" to life in Nara City, Nara Prefecture. The co-managers of Astral Ray Café, 36-year-old Shoko Iijima and 28-year-old Taeka Shibata, are providing a communal sanctuary for local residents feeling alienated or hesitant to seek out social connections, especially affected by the stresses of contemporary lifestyles that highly values independence and self-reliance. Their mission is for the café to serve as a subtle yet crucial part of the local community, similar to the role of astral rays in cellular biology, invisible yet essential for cellular communication and coordination.

Astral Ray Café is designed to be a cherished part of local residents' daily lives by emphasizing the role of social connections in enhancing psychological well-being. The café's welcoming environment is crafted through its open design, featuring large, clear windows that allow pedestrians to glimpse the warmth inside. Inside, the space boasts comfortable, communal seating that encourages retreat- seekers to mingle and unwind from the weight of everyday concerns in each other’s company. Every cup of coffee serves as an invitation for free chatting. This relaxed setup enriches every conversation, making discussions about everyday topics feel as significant as those held at the World Economic Forum in Davos. A regular visitor shares, “Talking with the owners, who serve us mostly as good listeners across the counter, makes me feel understood and eases my stress and anxiety.”

The opening of Stray Cat Café, another third place in Nara Prefecture, has been inspired through the personal journey of its manager, Ayako Sakai. Having moved from her hometown of Tokyo, the 28-year-old found a new mission in Oyodo Town, where she engaged deeply with the community as a voluntary member participating in a government-backed revitalization project. Over three years from 2018, Ayako's work not only contributed to the town's growth but also sparked her quest for greater challenges. The café’s name captures the essence of the stories shared by her customers from various walks of life, reflecting themes of loneliness and the search for a place to belong to. She reflected, “Opening Stray Cat is my way of giving back to the community for making me feel welcomed as I struggled to adapt to a new life here, much like a stray cat having a hard time finding a new home."

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