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Aromantic

According to Google, Aromantic is defined as „Person who has never experienced romantic attraction“. 


I’ve testified myself once before and the consequence was I was Aromantic.
But I’ve experienced romantic attraction when I was teenage hood.
Probably people have changed their sexuality some time in their whole life.
And also, sexuality is really depending on the person even though they have the same sexuality.
My result said I was Aromantic but I discovered a woman who was a YouTuber and had Aromantic sexuality.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JCt-JeR8tQ
„Connie Glynn - Are you aromantic…? My experience as an aro“
(Now we aren’t allowed to see this video. Sorry)
That’s she. She said she liked romance movies, however, for me the genre of movie is disgusting almost all the time.
What’s more, I can’t feel empathy at all when I see the sorts of movies. It’s just boring stuff. Love songs are the same. I like some love songs but their lyrics are about overcoming their breaking up or just being strong women, like that. Not about falling in love.
However, I love human’s physical touches. I love touching people who close to me or women. Sometimes when I hang out with my close male friends, I can’t keep myself from touching them but I talk to myself „Hey, he is man. I’m okay with touching but he might dislike or I could annoy him“. Most of the women accept my behavior but I should make a wall between men sometimes.
Gender problems are difficult to treat.

I’m Aromantic but I do like someone. I like someone based on TRUSTWORTHINESS.
I like someone means I trust the person so I hate love games. If my crush started a love game, for example postpone to make reply late or do something to get my attention, I would lose curiosity about him and start looking for next.
Also, I hate reading a room. Frequenrtlys men complain about women want men to understand their feelings without saying anything.
I’m totally on men’s side.
You have mouth. You can use the words. If you want someone to understand yourself, you must use your own words.
DON’T rely on others. Others are others.
Additionally, I prefer being alone or making a small group so I rarely think I want to go somewhere with others more than 4.
If you have trustworthiness between your partner or friends, that’s fine even if there is few time to be together.

All you need is trustworthiness.

Now let's check your sexuality using this web site "anone"!


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