思い付きでパラパラと
散らかる様に話すタイプと
最後まで聴いてから話す人とは
相性ワルいですよね

そういう相手に対して
話の腰を折らぬよう
傾聴スるのって
更に難しいのです( ･_･)ﾑｰ

ましてや考えてる事や確認事項を
口に出して整理シながら
聴いていくタイプは

結果的に
話の腰を折る形にナって
会話や説明がグチャグチャにナっちゃう
そんな傾向が有りますよね

アウトプットを並行シて
インプットする事は
理系の人々に見受けられる

自分の思考を絶えず
紙に起こして
脳内を計算や思考に
全振りスるスタイル

僕くらい計算力や思考力が低いと
ちょっとシた頼まれ事や
お買い物の暗算など
普通の人々が脳内で出来る事でも
声が出ちゃうのです

ホントは静かに思考シて
その上でズバッと一撃で
解決策を云える様に
ナりたいなぁ…
とは想うんですけどね

その方が
ずっとダンディだし
何よりカッコイイですよね
静かな印象って

知性は静謐に宿る
と想ってるんです

240429 Compatibility and Order of Thought

The type of person who speaks in a scattered and random manner
And the person who listens to the end before speaking
It's not a good match, is it?

When dealing with such a person
It's even more difficult to listen to them without breaking the conversation.

And even more so, when you're thinking and confirming things
And the type of person who listens while organizing his/her thoughts

As a result, the conversation and explanations become
and the conversation or explanation gets messed up.
There is such a tendency, isn't there?

To input while outputting at the same time
I see this in people in the sciences.

Constantly putting your thoughts on paper
This is a style in which the brain is completely occupied with calculations and thinking.

If your calculation and thinking skills are as poor as mine
I have to think out loud even when I'm asked to do a small task, or when I'm trying to do the math for a purchase or something that most people can do in their brains.

I really need to think quietly
And then with a single blow
I wish I could think quietly and then give a solution in one fell swoop...

But that would be
It's much more dandy.
And above all, it's cool.
Quiet impression...

I believe that intelligence resides in tranquility
I think.

by DeepL