I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels out of touch when someone tell me I'm "Beautiful." 

The way we greet each other, the way we write emails, the way we drink tea, the way we eat the way we talk the way we talk to each other, the way we cook, the way we clean, the way we walk, the way we sit, and of course the wayt we choose and use the things we wear.  The way wesit, the way we choose and use the things we wear.  Each action in our daily life is a manifestation of the aesthetics of the "heart", which each of us possesses, and which give us something to look at. 

The way you walk can make people think you're nice or it can make them think you don't want to come near you.  The timing of your comments at a meeting, the volume of your voice and the spped of your speech are all sings of your heart.  Even the timing of an important decision requires your heart. 

I am convinced that any person can reach a certain level in your work and life, but to go to a higher level depends on the quality of the “Human Skill” that he has acquired.